Everyone has experience attending weddings, and wanting to make a fashionable appearance while also dressing appropriately is indeed an art. Here are some wedding outfit taboos to avoid; we recommend looks that are stylish and eye-catching without being impolite.
In September of this year, there was news about how casual wedding attire among Taiwanese people sparked heated discussions online. Some commented, 'Men generally look sloppy, and women dress too provocatively, lacking elegance.' Personally, I’ve seen men wearing old T-shirts paired with ripped jeans and clogs at wedding receptions, and women in short skirts with fishnet stockings. Others mentioned, 'Dressing too formally steals the spotlight from the newlyweds.' This mainly stems from a lack of familiarity with formal occasions, leading to difficulties in choosing the right outfit.
Many people wonder why it’s important to dress formally and appropriately for weddings. Here are two reasons:
Reason 1:
This is a significant event for the newlyweds, usually held in a lavish restaurant. While attendees are not the main focus, seeing their friends and family dressed well for the wedding will certainly make the couple feel valued and happy.
Reason 2:
Perhaps you might meet Mr. or Miss Right at this celebration because of how handsome or beautiful you look in your wedding attire.
Regardless of how much you care about wedding outfits, avoid these four fashion faux pas to show basic respect for the newlyweds and leave a good impression on yourself.
Wedding Outfit No-Gos
1.Dressing Too Casually
Simply put, avoid wearing "loungewear" or "dirty, old clothes." Imagine sitting next to someone sloppy at the dinner table—it would likely affect your appetite.
2. Wearing All White/Black/Red
All white is reserved for the bride; all black can resemble attending a funeral. However, in recent years, some people have become less strict about wearing all black, but if you choose to, pair it with bright accessories and formal makeup. Additionally, some believe that red signifies the bride, and for those with a yellowish skin tone, wearing all red can accentuate this and make the complexion appear even yellower.
3.Dressing Too Lavishly
At a wedding, the newlyweds are the ones in the most formal and extravagant attire. If you’re a female guest, avoid wearing a floor-length gown or an outfit that sparkles more than the bride's; the main guests will definitely not be pleased.
4.Dressing Too Revealingly
Revealing outfits are generally not seen as classy and may lead people to think you just came from work. If you search online for "clubwear," you’ll understand what I mean.
Wedding Outfit Suggestions for Summer and Winter
Summer Wedding Attire Recommendations
For outdoor weddings, wearing a suit jacket can lead to overheating, so it's advisable to choose garments made from linen, which are cool and breathable. Linen comes in many vibrant colors, giving a lively appearance. Remember, men should never wear sandals; leather shoes are always the safest and most appropriate option.
For women, fitted but slightly loose clothing styles are recommended, but make sure the fabric isn’t too baggy. You can also accessorize with a chic straw hat for added elegance. If you opt for sandals, pay attention to your toenail polish and the condition of your feet.
Related Reading: [Shirt Material Guide] How to Choose the Right Fabric for You, Recommended Summer Shirt Materials, and Care Tips for Various Fabrics.
Winter Wedding Attire Recommendations
Winter is arguably the easiest season for dressing up. Regardless of what you wear, you can layer a trench coat or an overcoat for warmth outdoors. Once inside the restaurant, women can use a small fur shawl or silk scarf as a wrap, while men can opt for wool shirts and suits. Both men and women can wear solid-colored boots or leather shoes.
With a basic understanding of wedding attire, here are some example photos to inspire you further.
Wedding Outfit Suggestions
Examples for Women
1.Wedding Outfit - Delicate Floral Dress, Pastel Dress
Dresses are the most feminine and elegant choice for women. Opt for pastel colors or solid hues. Avoid overly flashy or large patterns, as they tend to be harder to coordinate.
2.Wedding Outfit - Shirt + TrousersIf you prefer wearing pants, that’s perfectly fine! Choose a top made from flowing materials to enhance femininity, such as satin, silk, or chiffon. These fabrics work beautifully!
3.Wedding Outfit - Women's Suit
For women's suits, opting for light or bright colors is more suitable for weddings, as it avoids the overly serious vibe often associated with business meetings.
Every woman's wardrobe should include a blazer; wearing a suit jacket instantly conveys a sense of formality.
Related Reading: What Does "Blazer" Mean in Chinese? Everyone's Wardrobe Should Have One!**
4.Wedding Outfit - High-Quality Accessories to Elevate Your Look
When it comes to accessories, focus on delicate and high-quality pieces without being overly extravagant. I believe a watch is an easy accessory to enhance your outfit.
Light-colored stone accessories are also great for adding the finishing touch.
Wedding Outfit Examples for Men
Wearing a shirt is the way to go. For other combinations, focus on "clean lines, no more than three colors overall, and a tidy appearance." This will convey a fresh, clean, and composed image, making you more likable at the wedding. If men want to stand out without being overly flashy, they should pay attention to the details.
1.Wedding Outfit - Shirt + Suit Pants
2.Wedding Outfit - Shirt + Jeans
3.Wedding Outfit - Shirt + Casual Suit
Related Reading: Avoid Embarrassment! 6 Examples of Men's Suit Jacket Styles for "Formal, Semi-Formal, and Casual" Attire
4.Wedding Outfit - Suit + Plain T-Shirt
5.Wedding Outfit - Men's Accessories
A watch can be considered an essential accessory for a stylish man, showcasing your status and taste.
Regardless of your cloth, adding a high-quality leather belt can improve your proportions and enhance your overall elegance.
Have you noticed that anyone, regardless of gender, can easily pair a quality suit jacket and shirt with other pieces? Not only are they great for weddings, but they’re also incredibly versatile for everyday life and casual weekends. If you don’t have a suit jacket and shirt yet, consider getting one custom-made for yourself!"